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How does your<\/em> life fit together? Are work, family, and friends in separate silos, a triangle you try to adjust to fit your week? Or do they somehow integrate into a whole so that social and work commitments merge, and perhaps the piece that gets neglected is you? Or maybe it all balances, a perfect helix or multiple strands of a helix that is somehow one thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As some of you know, my life doesn\u2019t go in straight lines. For example, I\u2019ve lived in unconventional locations and still wander almost anywhere I\u2019m invited and randomly engage with the unexpected interests of friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spirit Moxie emerged from my claiming myself as a writer even though the vision of Spirit Moxie is of things we can do together to change the world. That seems to me to be fairly clear. In my search for self (who I am as opposed to who everyone else wants me to be), I learned that wisdom found in our bodies knows the answers to who we really are. So, I started listening to my body, a process that got bludgeoned into me through a mild concussion and an easily treated form of leukemia (but, still, I was sick enough to scare my doctors). From those two events I realized that I was called to a place of presence that moved from presence to \u201cjust being.\u201d <\/a>And, yes, I wrote about it all.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But what does \u201cjust being,\u201d besides as a Conversation topic, have to do with Spirit Moxie? What does that have to do with \u201cchanging the world?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The question also is, \u201cwhat have I learned about just being as well as where, if anywhere, does it become part of how together we change the world?\u201d I feel like I\u2019m being repetitious. But this conundrum has been haunting me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Well, the book (Moxie Moves: 10 easy ways to make a powerful difference)<\/em>,<\/a> which was partly written to explain Spirit Moxie, is on reflection, an invitation to community and, by extension, presence. We can\u2019t create change together, for instance, without truly listening to each other, refraining from littering (imposing) emotions and ideologies as well as things, and keeping our word which are three of the ten \u201cways\u201d expanded in the book. Moxie Moves <\/em>was possible only through multiple contributions that happened, so it seemed to me, because those helping produce the book also believed we could create change together. All of this is a witness to presence \u2014 theirs with me and mine with them.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

\u201cJust being\u201d is a place of claiming \u201cnow.\u201d There is a stillness. And while it is a very interesting and beautiful space, there isn\u2019t a lot of deliberate action. It\u2019s a place where there is almost always ease and, for me, appreciation and curiosity. But why would anyone want that? And, again, what does it have to do with Spirit Moxie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I talk about \u201cjust being\u201d as a place of not doing. But from that place of not deliberately doing, this Conversation is getting written, Moxie Moves<\/em> was published, and I got to live in Thailand for a few months. I\u2019ve been calm during COVID and created a way to help others claim calm, which, is called Corner of Calm. As I write this, Corner of Calm has been \u201cgoing\u201d for half a year. I finally have an opportunity to do some dog training (a forgotten bucket list item). And there is a new vanity poetry book coming out \u201csoon,\u201d also through a community of friends. This is a partial list from the past two years of concrete \u201cthings\u201d that happened without deliberately doing, almost all of which involved community. I realized that having things happen without hard work , living through the past two years in calm, and effortlessly engaging with new communities, may indeed be useful to others.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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I\u2019m pretty sure this place of being is something one can learn. I see it as a place of empowered productivity through calm, ease, and purpose. Purpose for Spirit Moxie and how you are in the world. Calm and ease through presence. Sounds like \u201cbeing\u201d may indeed be integral to the whole Spirit Moxie picture. Presence may mean that people would have to change their relationship to time. They would need to be openminded. They would sometimes be wrong. They would, in the process, embrace their own integrity. And thereby learn to \u201cbe.\u201d All of which are, again, integral to our change the world premise. I get giddy thinking about it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

How do you see this inter-relationship relate to you? And as I asked at the beginning, how do various aspects of your<\/em> life intertwine? How do they fit together? Does your life make you happy? Are you happy with your life? Is there freedom in the separation of its parts? Or are the parts competing for time and attention? Do your pieces or strands interrelate and affect who we are as a collective? Does all of this fit with who and what you want to be for the world?
I would love to have time for a walk or a cup of coffee or both so we could talk. But comments work, too.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I\u2019ve been very privileged to share some of this Conversation around what Spirit Moxie is and who I am in a few podcasts this year. Here is a list with general notes about the podcasts. See if any sound engaging to you. They were all fun for me and all challenged me to think in new ways. All links are to Spotify unless otherwise noted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

More about me than I usually share elicited by JR\u2019s passion for podcasts. WV UnCommon Place\u00a0 hosted by JR Sparrow<\/a> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Book publishing – and addressing overwhelm – The Author\u2019s Workshop – Francis Mbunya (only available as a Facebook live on his page<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A discussion of Spirit Moxie. The Stephen Ivey Show hosted by Stephen T. Ivey<\/a> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

An illuminating conversation that produced new challenges and ideas. Kirsty, who broadcasts from Scotland, always is thoughtful and highlights small businesses, poetry, and non-profits. She actually used one of my poems so the portion of the show related to Spirit Moxie begins at 14:12 minutes into the recording. The conversation focuses on the book Moxie Moves.<\/em> Fancy a Blether? hosted by Kirsty Louise<\/a> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

My first podcast interview. SheBlurbs hosted by Brook Wright <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Photos from the top:

Moxie Moves <\/a><\/em>on porch \u2014 Mary Barr Rhodes<\/a>
“Sit!” \u2014 Spirit Moxie
Tree (poetry book hint) \u2014 Spirit Moxie<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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