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Welcome to 2023!<\/span><\/p>\n

Those who have read my previous posts for a new year have been invited to dream,<\/a> choose a word or phrase to guide us, and otherwise embrace the year we\u2019re entering (even 2021<\/a> with all its uncertainty). I still believe that all these activities are useful, empowering, and, often, engaging. But now that this new year has begun, let\u2019s pause once more and claim the best for it slightly differently.<\/span><\/p>\n

This year, I sense that there is more power in beginning with a three-part template. First, truly claim the power of gratitude.<\/a> Second, dare to stand firmly as who you are rather than in some idealistic version you\u2019ll magically become by next December. Finally, yes, restate and re-envision your dreams \u2014 and connect them to gratitude.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"PictureOK, but how does this really work in practice? Begin with, \u201cWhat am I grateful for that occurred in 2022?.\u201d What brought delight?<\/a> Did you catch glimpses of joy? Then share those experiences! If you\u2019re stuck, just naming that you made it to a new year is a great beginning. I\u2019ve met new friends. I am actually cooking again fairly regularly. A health scare was easily resolved thanks to my community and great doctors. And I could go on: the demand that Corner of Calm continue; finishing a puzzle before I left from my Christmas visit to family.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

You may have had some terrible, terrible things happen during the past year. Acknowledge that. Then look for tiny things to give thanks for if you can\u2019t find big ones. This isn\u2019t a Pollyanna-ish exercise. Set a timer for five minutes, get as still as you can, and write down whatever gratitude you see. Share one or two in the comments (sharing gives gratitude power). Post on Facebook. Send me an email. Knowing there was good in 2022, however hard or easy it is to find it, lays a base. It\u2019s the difference between, \u201cProve yourself stupid time marker!\u201d vs \u201cI can see glimpses of what can be good in a year! Interesting.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The second piece of our New Year\u2019s claiming is you. Yes, You! One of the phrases I heard a lot last year was the deceptively simple statement, \u201cYou are enough.\u201d If you really want to mess with what we believe, we can add in my claim that you\u2019re perfect. What? I know both of those statements anger our critical minds, but reread what I wrote about \u201cperfect\u201d<\/a> before you get all defensive. Neither of these statements means we can\u2019t and won\u2019t change. What happens is that we become even more who we are. I really do know you are awesome and it is crucial to a wonderful new year that you see it, too.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"DogHere are a couple of exercises that can help. For me they involve writing, but a conversation with a really good friend or an activity that involves some other means of expression (drawing? making up a song? going on a thoughtful walk?) works, too. Name 5 to 10 of your gifts. I would guess that a couple of them even got stronger last year. I, for example, have bonded more with animals. None of these gifts have to be huge (although I would bet some are). \u201cCalm during COVID\u201d is still one of mine. If you really can\u2019t think of anything, it might be useful to start keeping a list of compliments. I\u2019m not sure from whom I got that exercise, but I have a place to write down \u201cchill\u201d when that was applied to me. Just the word. Some of you may have more physical things to name as gifts, although I would hope most of those (\u201cmy business took off\u201d) were in your gratitude list.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

It is from this place of naming who you are, even if others don\u2019t always see it, that we bring strength to the third part. Dream and vision. Plan if you must (as someone not linear, I truly forget that often you are), but don\u2019t set those plans in stone. What we want are destinations and some eagerness to take steps towards them. But it isn\u2019t the steps we are naming here. It isn\u2019t \u201cI\u2019m losing weight.\u201d Or even a particular weight number. But to be able to say, \u201cI\u2019m truly happy with my body.\u201d<\/a> Not, \u201cI\u2019ll be debt free,\u201d but \u201cI live in true abundance.\u201d Not even, \u201cI want better experiences,\u2019 but \u201cI know delight.\u201d Name the end, not the means. As Mike Dooley<\/a> says, you set your GPS and then move. If we head the wrong way with a GPS, we are redirected.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Finally, as part of this visioning, give thanks for your dreams right now. I give thanks for my body. I delight in what I have and do. I know joy. Fuel. A stillness and foundation full of momentum. Paradox.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\"GruetI\u2019m not sure what images work for you as you enter this new year, but I know that you can only embrace them as yourself. And yourself is fabulous. Right now. I see that. Plus, remember that the groundwork from last year supports the vision for this one.<\/span><\/p>\n

I toasted my new year with champagne bubbles and, today, I might do it again with herb tea. You?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 <\/span>Welcome to 2023!<\/span><\/p>\n

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\nAll photos by Spirit Moxie. From the top:<\/p>\n

Puzzle finished over Christmas
\nDog on my lap
\nNew Year’s bubbles<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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